Tuesday, November 9, 2010

Beautiful Megan


I thought maybe writing this post the day after would be easier... it's not.
Yesterday I got a heartbreaking phone call, telling me that sweet, beautiful Megan had passed away.
I don't know how many times I said, "No, no, no, no, no, no...", "Oh my gosh, oh my gosh, oh my gosh."
She has been fighting Leukemia for 4 months now, and I really thought she would win the battle.
I assured her that she would.
This was just a bump in the road.
An unfortunate and unfathomable trial that she was being asked to go through...
Not being with her baby... losing her hair... going through so much pain....
It wasn't supposed to last.
She was supposed to get her miracle.

I've not dealt with a lot of death in my life.
I've had two grandparents pass away in old age and even then it was still hard to say goodbye.
I'm so grateful for the gospel and yet, still find myself questioning God...
Why Megan?
She was so young, so talented, so amazing.
Why did we pray so hard if this is what our answer was?
I've said some of my most heartfelt, pleading prayers in her behalf.
I've literally begged Heavenly Father to heal her.
I know that he has a plan for all of us.
I know that he hears our prayers.... I really do know that.
But this is a hard one to accept.
Rylee will not know the exceptional woman who gave her life, in this lifetime.
How is that fair?
I suppose these questions will be answered in time...
And that is why it's called a test of faith.

I can't think of her without breaking down.
I wonder when the tears will stop.
I feel privledged to have been her friend these past two years.
I'm so grateful for my memories...
Meeting her at Dave and Busters during orientation week and learning they had moved from Hawaii...so cool...
Our first year going to the Wing Festival and joking the whole time that it really should have been us that won the {Miss Buffalo Wing} contest.. next year for sure....
Memoaning our fate of moving to Buffalo and not having jobs... scheming what kind of business we could go into together...
Snarfing on Olive Garden salad and breadsticks on her first birthday out here....
Being excited for her decison to get her masters and then celebrating her graduation...
Finding out she was pregnant and answering all her nervous questions about childbirth, nursing, and babies....
Reading the heartwrenching plea of her mother on Facebook to go be with them after they found out she might have Leukemia....
Spending Rylee's first day of life in the hospital with her...
Visting Megan in the hospital and being amazed at her strength....
STILL being amazed by her strength...

Megan,
I'm devasted that you are not with us.
That we don't get to enjoy your funny sense of humor, model smile, magnetic personality, and gorgeous looks.
I was always so envious of those qualitites.
I will miss your voice.
Thank you for teaching me to enjoy every day...
every moment... of this life.
Because you lived it to the fullest.
We don't know how long our time is and it's not to be taken for granted.
I look forward to when I get to see you again.
I know I will.
All my love,
Stephanie






Sunday, November 7, 2010

Interesting Post

On a recommendation, I read this post earlier this week and I thought it was worth {passing on}. 
At least I felt he made some valid points and was impressed with his resolve.

Wednesday, November 3, 2010

HaPpY BiRtHdAy RaCheL and CreScEnT!

 Monday was a fun day filled with birthday celebrations for my good friends, Rachel and Crescent! Megan and I teamed up to plan a brunch/"tea party" for the day time and then a movie and dessert for night time. We just had to do a little partyin' with no kids. :)

The brunch was so fun. It felt fancy to be eating on china (Megan found it at an estate sale just for the occasion!) and pouring our hot chocolate from the silver plated pitcher and sipping it from tea cups. Ah, to be British :)
Megan made some amazing scones and I finally had a chance to try making the Pear Claufoti that Rach is famous for. I wish I could eat like that every morning! 

That night we went and saw Eat, Pray, Love. Even though I didn't like the book, I was excited to see the places she wrote about. And it's always interesting to me to see a movie after I've read the book. It was OK... I wouldn't see it again, but I do like Julia Roberts and it was just fun to be out with the gals! :)

After the movie, we went back to my place for cake and icecream. I was excited that the cake turned out! I've never made a fancy cake like this and it was {death by chocolate} for sure. I got the recipe off Picky Palate. And I hope you girls don't mind.... I just had to include a {blowing} pic :)

We stayed up way too late talking and laughed way too hard (just have Denyse share her explicit mall story :).
Thanks for being born girls! Don't know what I'd do without such great friends!





Tuesday, November 2, 2010

HaPPy HaLLoWeeN!

Well, its been a week long celebration starting with the ward Halloween party on Wednesday. Here is Collin in his tooth costume that I made and Gavin as a spider. Collin wasn't too interested in having the tooth on, but then it seemed he quite liked it. And it was good padding for all the times he fell on his face.

 This month Collin learned what a pumkin was and he's been taken by them ever since. The grocery store I go to, has them all out in front and he's always dying to hop out of the cart and go touch them.

 Trav was in charge of the haunted house, and was gone doing that most of the night so we didn't dress up. I did wear some earrings that light up like flashlights that were fairly novel. And I have to give props to Trav and the other guys doing the haunted house, because grown adults were leaving scared. It was pretty funny.

 Thursday morning we went to the ward's playgroup that was at Galleria Mall for their "Galleria of Treats". Basically it was just walking through the mall going trick or treating at booths. Collin didn't get it at all. Once he got one piece of candy and had it in his mouth, he'd get the next piece and want to switch it out. So basically I just gave him a sucker and took over all of the {trick or treating}. Here are most of the kiddos from our ward that made it.

 Here he is with one of the 4 suckers he consumed. All the vendors got a kick out of his costume and kept making jokes about him getting a cavity. You can't tell as well as I thought you could, but in the one of him in his carseat, he's just coated in sticky goo. And he was obviously very happy about it.



 Saturday night we had our traditional Halloween party and I think it was a success! The costumes keep getting better and better each year. I was impressed. Trav has had another heinous week of tests so he couldn't help much, but it was still fun to get ready for it. And of course, making the caramel and chocolate dipped apples for the prizes with Tiff and Rach was a blast. It turned into a fun {girls night} that was just a bit tainted when Tiff brought up the fact that she won't be around next year.... don't remind us Tiff!! :(

 If you couldn't tell.... (and most people couldn't) .. I was the tooth fairy (note tooth on tiara) and Trav was the little boy who lost his tooth. He's supposed to have bed head and be missing a tooth, but I'm afraid he might have come off more {gomerish} than little boyish. That's my fault. But I still think he's cute! :)



 We were thrilled to have Arianna and Craig stop by (aka Rach and Doug) and they most deservingly won the {Funniest} costume award.

 I'm so mad I didn't get a better picture of Denyse and Ryan!!!! They were a Chilean miner and his mistress. Denyse looked so different, you really couldn't even recognize her. It took us all a minute to figure out it was her! You can kind of see the tube on the floor that Ryan came out of and they did a little {performance} to present their costumes that was hilarious. Denyse was only speaking in Spanish before Ryan came down in the tube and then he broke out and they had their "reunion". They won the {Best Overall} award.

 Wayne and Rachel as Popeye and Olive Oil... I believe won {Most Realistic}.

 Laney and Taylor Hawes were a "French Kiss". And French kiss they did! Others got more explicit pictures... I present you with the PG rated one. :) They appropriately won {Best Couple}.

 Carolyn and Levi Taylor were a Gold Digger and a Sugar Daddy. They won {Most Expensive}costume... haha :)

 Crescent and Dave Marchant were Rapenzel and Prince Charming. Cute cute!

 Tiffany and Creed Cardon were a mad scientist and his experiment. Love the "pooch" on Creed and the fetus gone wild on Tiff. They appropriately won {Scariest} costume.

 Lawrence and Andrea Garrett playing pirates!

 Bron and Megan Shaheen as Peter Pan and Wendy (their little girl was Tinkerbell).

 Adrian and Natalie Dayton won {Most Creative} costume as Ammon and one of King Lamoni's sheep! How do they come up with these things?! Might have been my favorite.

 Ryan and Rachel came as Chinese people. It might be hard to tell, but Ryan was toeing the line of cross dressing with his ensemble. Brave man! :) It was really funny and got them the {Coolest} award.

 I think that Chanda and Scott House should have won an award as Tiger Woods and Elin. So creative!
I don't know how I missed getting a picture of Anthony and Kristie dressed as swimmers but I did get a pic of Kristie doing the donut eating contest later. They won {Sexiest} costume. I also missed Jake and Whitney Wilding who came as cowboys and got the {Last Minute} prize.

I introduced Doug and Rachel last and they immediately got up and started yelling and cheering and then entertained us with a group of cheers. I was laughing so hard, my cheeks hurt. It was too funny for words. They did awesome! This is a "must-watch" video!
 A sampling of the treats.... I made the 7 layer bean dip with the {bone} chips made out of bone shaped, toasted tortillas. A bit more time consuming than I thought it would be, but it's so nice when it turns out the way you wanted it to look and it doesn't taste bad either... thank you butter!  






 After I handed out the awards (and yes, I realize we had a TON of them... we decided to be the Socialist Halloween party this year and give as many prizes as possible :) ... the Spartan Cheerleaders decided it was time for {the perfect cheer}. Again... hysterical. They were the highlight of the night and the hit of the party. Great job you guys!!!

We also had our donut eating contest... winner of the guys was Lawrence!

 Maybe this picture was funnier at the moment, but right when the girls dove in for their donuts, the bar fell and hit Denyse in the face! Sad, right?! But when I looked down at my camera and saw the picture had gotten the exact moment after, I just died laughing. Andrea won for the ladies!

 The party died down around 10:30pm but luckily we had some late nighters stick around for kareoke! Here is Doug and Lawrence releasing their inner "boy band". They favored us with some Backstreet Boys and Michael Jackson. I love performers! Thanks to everyone who came... a party isn't good without fun guests and we had a ball!

As for actual Halloween.... that night we decided to get in the Halloween spirit by carving up our slightly molding pumpkin and watching Hocus Pocus. I'm sure the Savior approved. Gavin stopped by to {trick or treat} and then we returned the favor at his house, the Cardons, and our next door neighbors. It was a big sacrifice for a guy who has been studying non-stop for what feels like weeks..... and I guess it has been weeks. October has not been a fun {dental school} month. He is seriously lacking on sleep and I'm seriously lacking on my Trav time! Hooray for the Pharmacy test being done today!






Friday, October 29, 2010

Good Timing

I just saw this picture on my friend's blog from when we went to the pumpkin farm a couple weeks ago and about died laughing! I had completely forgotten about this incident! The kids were just playing and running around in the hay when I saw an older kid pick up a bunch of hay and throw it right in Collin's face. I kind of gasped and the kid ran off, and there wasn't much else to do about it, but then my friend Denyse realized she had been taking pictures of the kids playing and got the {hay in the face incident} right as it happened! She didn't even realize what had happened until the she saw the picture flash back. Too good. Too good.

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Zonked



It was 12:30pm, after about 1/2 hour of uninterrupted cooking in the kitchen, that I decided to go put Collin down for his nap. And this is how I found him in the living room. It reminded me that I had heard a "thump" about 15 min. prior, but just thought it was a toy that had hit the ground. Nope, it was my son, and apparently it wasn't enough of a jolt to stir his slumber. This is the first time EVER that he's fallen asleep at home without being in his crib. I felt a tinge of guilt, but was pretty grateful I was able to get the lasagna in the crockpot without the screamer at my feet.



Monday, October 25, 2010

Shelley and Casey's Visit

 Wednesday night, my twin sister and her husband flew in for a visit! They're lucky they made it from the airport to our house alive, considering I was driving in the rain, at midnight, with my 5 year old glasses. I was literally pressed against the wheel, squinting into the glare while trying to assure them I could drive this road with my eyes closed. I guess I wasn't too far off.
The next morning we headed to Palmyra and were able to do a temple session at 11am thanks to Tiff and Denyse who watched Collin for me all day! What a blessing. Palmyra would have been awful with him running around. Instead, we had the whole day to ourselves! After the temple, we did the Joseph Smith Farm tour and walked around the Sacred Grove.






 Then we went to the Hill Cumorah and finished with the E.B. Grandin Building. All the tours were great and we had our tour guides all to ourselves, but the Book of Mormon publishing tour was a doozy. We got a nice, old man who loved to talk. And talk he did! Bless his heart, I don't know how he has a voice after a day of giving tours. We had worked up quite an appetite with all that listening, so we had to stop into Mark's Pizza for dinner. Casey made the executive decision to skip the large, and go straight to the sheet pizza! Good choice Casey.

 The next morning, we drove to the American side of Niagara Falls. BRRR! It was a bit nipply out! From where we parked and had to walk, we were misted with the icy spray of the falls and Collin couldn't even stand to be in his stroller. I had to hold him most of the way. I felt bad when I saw other people's kids bundled up so much their arms were sticking straight out and poor Collin only had on one coat and no hat (he wouldn't let me put the hood on). So while Casey and Shelley did the Maid of the Mist, Collin and I hung out in the visitor's center and he ran in the warmth to his heart's content. I was amused when a Oriental lady stopped to watch him and jabber in Chinese (who knows, maybe that's the language he speaks!) and then pulled out her camera and started talking pictures! She was just ticked pink by him and it gave me the giggles. What on earth is she going to do with those pictures?!

 Well, I just had to show them Wegmans (or Wedge-mans, as Shelley said it). So we stopped in for some sub sandwiches and took them to the dental school to have lunch with Travis, then show them around. When we were done eating, the table was saturated with oil that had leaked through the wrapping. Indicator of a good lunch! When we got home, I sent them off to see a movie, and Collin and I took naps! Thanks to the babysitting swap, we were able to eat Duffs without the screamer and get some Turkey Hill icecream to take home for dessert. (Casey served his mission in Pennsylvania and remembered loving Turkey Hill)


Saturday morning we tackled Kirtland. I had been once before with the YW for youth conference, but it was Trav's first time. The trees were so bright and gorgeous. Not at all captured by this lame picture.


I had brought the video camera and the second I pulled it out, the battery went dead! Humprf! So with the other camera battery flashing, this is the little video I got of our trip. Not too exciting, but at the end you can see the pretty trees in the distance.
 At the LDS visitor's center, we watched a movie about the church history in Kirtland, then took a tour showing us the Newel K. Whitney Store, Whitney home, Ashery, and Sawmill.

 We had some time to kill in the Community of Christ visitor's center before the tour, so Collin got to play dress up...


 By now, it was after 3pm and this kid had not taken a nap, so he was less than pleasant while touring the Kirtland Temple. Shelley pulled off the stickers we had to wear while on the tour and put them on Collin's eyes to amuse him. He loved it and it gave us the giggles. 

 While looking at these pictures, I realized I most definitely have a stomach! I hope everyone is happy now! :) I haven't done any of the {pregnancy pictures} I did with Collin, so here is Duff at a little over 6 months!




 We ended with the Issac Morley Farm tour and learned that this is where Emma birthed her twins that died and was subsequently given the Murdock twins to raise.

 On the farm tour, Collin FINALLY fell asleep, so we didn't want to wake him when we got dinner afterward. We thought he'd continue sleeping until we got home, so our solution was to bring the whole carseat into the restaurant! Hey, we'll never see these people again, right? We thought we were pretty creative, but then, not even 10 minutes later the stinker woke up! And he didn't fall back asleep on the car ride home. We were gone over 12 hours and he slept a total of 30 minutes. What gives?

 I'm so glad they didn't have to leave until Sunday afternoon, so they were able to come to church with us! It was fun to introduce them to our friends in the ward, and especially to introduce her as my {twin} and get the surprised looks. We might as well have been telling them that Casey and Travis were twins!
 They also had the misfortune of sitting through my Gospel Doctrine lesson. I thought they would make me really nervous, but what really got me shaking, was when people kept coming in the door until there were no more seats left! Seriously, people were coming in, then having to leave because there was no where to sit. I thought I was going to have a heart attack. Again, what gives? I don't think I'll be handing out jolly ranchers again. This calling is going to put me in an early grave.

After church, they had just enough time to eat, before having to go to the airport. Trav has been begging for this dinner since Tiffany made it for us months ago, and he finally got it!  It's a bit involved, but very tasty. And I only set the fire alarm off twice, heating up the oil. Oops. I'll put the recipe at the end of the post if anyone wants to try it. Warning: it makes a ton! I'm glad I borrowed Tiff's wok, because none of my other pans would have been big enough.



Just because this pic had no other logical place to go, I put it at the end. Shelley got a kick out of Collin when she opened the fridge door and he pulled out a gogurt and she let him have it. She said his face lit up and he did a little {happy dance} jig right then and there, then bolted to the living room and backed into his "throne", all ready to eat his favorite thing in the world. She made his day. He loved having Aunt Shelley and Uncle Casey around. It was not fun taking them to the airport. Time really does go by too fast. I'm so glad they were able to make the trip out here. It meant a lot and we loved every second. How wonderful to not only have siblings, but to have a twin! She is a lot of fun and a great sister. Casey's not too bad himself :) Thanks for coming to the Buff you guys!

Kung Pao Spaghetti


Kung Pao Sauce

1 ½ cups chicken stock

2 Tbs cornstarch

¾ cup soy sauce

½ cup dry sherry

3 Tbs red chili paste with garlic

¼ cup sugar

2 Tbs red wine vinegar

2 Tbs asian toasted sesame oil



For the Pasta

1 pound dry spaghetti

½ cup plus two Tbs olive oil

1 pound boneless, skinless chcken breasts, cut into ¾ inch cubes

20 whole Chinese dried red chili peppers

1 cup unsalted roasted peanuts

¼ cup minced garlic

3 cups coarsely chopped scallions (3/4 inch pieces)

Egg White-Cornstarch mixture


2 egg whites

2 Tbs cornstarch

½ tsp salt


To Make the Kung Pao Sauce:

In a medium saucepan, whisk together the chicken stock and cornstarch until the cornstarch has fully dissolved. Stir in all the remaining sauce ingredients and bring to a boil over medium-high heat. Reduce the heat and simmer until the sauce is thick enough to coat the back of a spoon, 15 to 20 minutes. Set aside.


To Make the Egg White-Cornstarch Mixture:

In a mixing bowl, use a small whisk to stir together the egg whites, cornstarch, and salt until thoroughly blended; take care, however, not to beat them into a froth. Set aside.


Pasta:

Bring large pot of salted water to a rapid boil. Add the pasta and cook until al dente, 8-9 minutes.

Meanwhile, in a large, nonstick frying pan over high heat, heat the olive oil for about 1 minute. Add the chicken pieces to the egg white-cornstarch mixture and toss to coat them. Taking great care to avoid splattering, add the coated chicken to the pan and cook like a solid pancake until the egg mixture sets; then, using a large spatula, carefully flip the chicken pieces over together and, with a wooden spoon, gently separate the pieces.

Carefully stir the Chinese peppers and roasted peanuts into the pan. As soon as they darken in color, after no more than 1 minute, stir in the garlic and scallions. Once the garlic begins to brown, after no more than 30 seconds, add the Kung Pao Sauce and toss and stir to coat the ingredients.

When the pasta is ready, drain it well and in a large mixing bowl, toss it thoroughly with the sauce.
Delish!